tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post2930176642562880251..comments2023-10-11T14:18:04.098+05:30Comments on Ahamkaara: Girl you'll be a woman soonSahana Raohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comBlogger97125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-6891731101052347342012-02-09T16:38:10.169+05:302012-02-09T16:38:10.169+05:30it's happening nowadays, early puberty... coz ...it's happening nowadays, early puberty... coz some kids around my place had their first period as early as 8-10 years. I was really worried when I heared all those mainly because how they are going to live with a young body and a kid's mind in this mentally retarded society who are awaiting to use all possible ways to blackguard and sexually offend a female.<br /><br />We have to think at least ones before offering packed foods, fast foods etc. just to save our kids. Don't let your sweet girl hate her life and bodymilanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00635724463957141071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-52943287426346991632012-01-30T15:34:05.602+05:302012-01-30T15:34:05.602+05:30I am so so glad you came up with this post. I wrot...I am so so glad you came up with this post. I wrote something similar about this on my blog recently do check it..... <br />http://pkperception.blogspot.com/2012/01/dont-be-ashamed.html<br /><br />About all these girly issues, I recently got to know and still getting to know (I don't have sisters). I didn't know how to react, because I never knew something like this (mood swings, PMS, etc) existed. My only question was, Why God, Why..?? This is something natural and we should all work towards not making this a bigger issue and create a better environment around ourselves. Well as everyone above had said that 6 years is too young, I presume hers is a unique problem. Hope God gives her strength and some sense to all those people who still treat this natural phenomenon as a taboo....<br /><br />Great post, keep coming with these kind of posts which seriously helps people like me to know more about these things and will all try to act normal about these things.... God bless that girl...:)Prashanthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06586986897407468626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-4623253935275425552012-01-30T00:14:41.974+05:302012-01-30T00:14:41.974+05:30There is no logic to life sometimes. For you and t...There is no logic to life sometimes. For you and the kid, this is one such time. Reasons unknown play on the small lives. Ahhh. How I wish we could control...Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-25257692873972885492012-01-30T00:13:10.539+05:302012-01-30T00:13:10.539+05:30Right Sir. She will. Matter of time. Thanks a lot ...Right Sir. She will. Matter of time. Thanks a lot for the comment :)Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-57485018664651809952012-01-30T00:12:37.006+05:302012-01-30T00:12:37.006+05:30She will get support and help, she will have to ge...She will get support and help, she will have to get mentally strong. She should. She will.<br /><br />Oh yeah. I am still working on it. So glad you liked it :)Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-30452448673925580622012-01-30T00:11:12.513+05:302012-01-30T00:11:12.513+05:30Welcome Isha! :)
Valued comment.Welcome Isha! :)<br />Valued comment.Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-14170113455001921222012-01-27T19:31:41.765+05:302012-01-27T19:31:41.765+05:30I can relate to it..I got mine when I was hardly 1...I can relate to it..I got mine when I was hardly 10. These days the age for puberty has lowered.. The hormonal stress and the awkwardness do take a toll.. I feel sad for this 6 year girl, shes just too young to be growing me :(M in lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06730732015733826182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-53676572784314546292012-01-27T00:07:56.541+05:302012-01-27T00:07:56.541+05:30Very unfortunate. But I think over a period of tim...Very unfortunate. But I think over a period of time she will understand- just as you did. But giving the psychological support that she needs till that time is the challenge.Hariharan Valadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12244321351448793974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-49014331493627981952012-01-26T23:28:11.302+05:302012-01-26T23:28:11.302+05:30Its sad to know this... Why this should happen to ...Its sad to know this... Why this should happen to an innocent child which was destined to play and have fun and frolic? Hope she gets all the necessary support with all the people around her!<br /><br />And, a complete new look to the blog huh? Its veryyy nice!! For a moment, I cross checked if this is the right blog :)Anandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10677089538430811523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-54703174974410500872012-01-24T20:11:23.247+05:302012-01-24T20:11:23.247+05:30Hello there. Stumbled upon ur blog. Welcome me as ...Hello there. Stumbled upon ur blog. Welcome me as ur new follower :)<br />About this post, it is just saddening to see this happen to a little child. May god give the little one strength to bear it<br /><br />Isha<br />www.j-isha.blogspot.comIshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13901079890490718571noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-75723742163134760612012-01-24T14:48:58.540+05:302012-01-24T14:48:58.540+05:30Thanks for assuming that I had the time to think o...Thanks for assuming that I had the time to think over this. I see that you know every inch of my life to know that I had time to think over this. <br />And as far as your 'a' and 'b' points goes, I neither see a point in endorsing nor refuting the motives you have ascribed to me w.r.t. this post.Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-52060896435686736422012-01-24T14:17:36.647+05:302012-01-24T14:17:36.647+05:30The immediate reaction would have reflected in the...The immediate reaction would have reflected in the call you got. When you post it on your blog, you have had time to think through. So, I don't buy that argument. I've read through your other posts, and expected more thinking to have gone in.<br />I don't want to start off a flame war, but this post looks like an attempt to: a) Show yourself as someone who can write freely about touchy topics b) Get more page-views/comments/redirects/re-posts : In which case, I would be happy to acknowledge your attempt as a good one!K-Manhttp://google.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-81850744549052966632012-01-23T23:37:41.707+05:302012-01-23T23:37:41.707+05:30She will. She has to. But, that understanding phas...She will. She has to. But, that understanding phase will be a little difficult. Prayers much required!:)Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-2108729813707020082012-01-23T23:36:54.360+05:302012-01-23T23:36:54.360+05:30Mr/Miss/Mrs. Anonymous
When ever such a thing happ...Mr/Miss/Mrs. Anonymous<br />When ever such a thing happens in a normal person's life, the first thing the person does is 'to react'. This post of mine is just my reaction to it. What can be done, how and such questions will be assessed and that would be a response. If this post can make people think in a different angle, for me that is helping. <br />Many of the fellow commentators have their two cents in their comments. :)<br /><br />Thanks for the comment.Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-57518488142004842212012-01-23T23:28:47.490+05:302012-01-23T23:28:47.490+05:30Empathy makes us more human. She will get that kno...Empathy makes us more human. She will get that knowledge and education in the due course of time.:)Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-14295153324353323792012-01-23T23:25:49.736+05:302012-01-23T23:25:49.736+05:30That is very kind of you Jasper. Few rough paths t...That is very kind of you Jasper. Few rough paths to tread before reaching the normal way. Way of life maybe.Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-70989390647493647262012-01-23T23:23:36.602+05:302012-01-23T23:23:36.602+05:30Welcome Bhargavi :) I understand. Little girl, big...Welcome Bhargavi :) I understand. Little girl, big things. :-\Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-81988617587653487192012-01-23T20:02:03.098+05:302012-01-23T20:02:03.098+05:30Oh God! 6 years is far too early. Poor child. If w...Oh God! 6 years is far too early. Poor child. If we can't understand an iota of what is what at 10 or 12, how can the poor one understand at 6? Prayers for the kiddo.Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02382499546129406231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-38216611311435994992012-01-23T19:08:44.694+05:302012-01-23T19:08:44.694+05:30Alright.. Let's get some perspective folks. We...Alright.. Let's get some perspective folks. We need to understand what is in our control and what isn't. Firstly, we have absolutely no way to control when a girl reaches puberty. When it does happen, we have no option but to accept it, & deal with it. Having said that, considering that 6 is too early, everyone related to the girl needs to do everything in their control to help her out, understand and deal with it. For once, instead of cribbing over how it's too early, too tough blah blah blah, why don't we see some suggestions on how to deal with the issue? What would you do if you had to deal with such a situation?<br />At least that sort of a discussion will help someone. The non stop cribbing and empathizing don't necessarily have the same effect.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-71518368655792970112012-01-23T15:49:34.213+05:302012-01-23T15:49:34.213+05:30Earliest in my family was 4th standard my cousin, ...Earliest in my family was 4th standard my cousin, we were all so shocked that how she would take it, seriously I got shivers at the thought of 6yr old! god!<br /><br />I just hope she gets clear knowledge about it and also good sex education to keep her safe!Ramyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04853439096038019882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-70750215616101053302012-01-23T15:33:13.321+05:302012-01-23T15:33:13.321+05:30My heart goes out for the kid.
Its very difficul...My heart goes out for the kid. <br /><br />Its very difficult to understand at such a young age the complexities that enters our lives wen menses strikes. It is obviously a life changing moment. <br /><br />6 is an age where kids roam around, run around, play freely and without any care. Menses striking at such a raw age takes away all the fun. And more frustrating would be when her peers would get to know it, cos i don't think its easy for such a small kid to hide it.Aditihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11431154789055979497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-15737771851748623882012-01-23T04:50:35.772+05:302012-01-23T04:50:35.772+05:30Here from Uma's space.. puberty at 6 is so hor...Here from Uma's space.. puberty at 6 is so horrific.. poor poor girl!.. I started menstruating rather late, but remember how horrible it was with the strange new things going on inside my body. I can only vaguely imagine how perplexed the poor girl must be feeling .Bhargavihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11532498932030700441noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-67325279118310425612012-01-23T00:40:28.085+05:302012-01-23T00:40:28.085+05:30Glad to have added new dimension to your thinking....Glad to have added new dimension to your thinking. Isn't that we all read and write? If are able to think in newer dimension than yesterday. Just proves that you are a nice person who is open to learn new things. You made my day!Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-60136969395914391132012-01-23T00:37:17.440+05:302012-01-23T00:37:17.440+05:30Right Chintan. Reproductive organs usually do not ...Right Chintan. Reproductive organs usually do not grow properly when it is too early, maybe that is why such irregularities occur.<br />The kid will be examined for the abnormality.Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9158145492382356089.post-84181608177966984142012-01-23T00:34:32.051+05:302012-01-23T00:34:32.051+05:30And I have given my take on it there.And I have given my take on it there.Sahana Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06313761460595189822noreply@blogger.com